Some Thoughts on Self-Improvement

veladmin   September 19, 2016   Comments Off on Some Thoughts on Self-Improvement

Self-improvement can encompass a lot of aspects in one’s life. It can be about your career, finances, relationships, skills, and many others. The main idea here is that self-improvement must lead to a better person who is well-rounded and holistic.

The problem most of the time is that people want to improve but they do not have an idea as to what to improve. This brings in the importance of constant self-reflection. Sometimes, because of the complexities of life, people tend to forget about themselves. All attention, for example, is focused on work and family that one fails to see that the self is already suffering and falling apart which is the opposite of what should happen to anyone. The self must be elevating step by step and not otherwise.

To be able to narrow down areas for self-improvement, you can start by considering what mostly occupies your time? Is it your work, your family, your friends? If it is your work, for instance, what about it that gives you difficulty most of the time? You might say that it seems like you always have so much to do that you always feel pressured and tired.

That is a good start, then. You are at least able to point out one aspect which you may have some control over in the coming days. You might want to create a self-improvement plan on how you budget and manage your time.

The entire process of self-reflection must revolve that way since your self is most exposed and most vulnerable to what you constantly focus your attention to. What occupies your time may be hurting yourself already. Thus, you may need to modify some behaviors or beliefs in that aspect.

Moreover, you can also consider those areas in your life which you are not very happy about. Carefully think about the circumstances involved. Why are you not happy about it? What gives you the burden? What do you think you can do to reverse the situation? More often than not, the key to self-improvement is just a matter of giving more time to look at the self and examine it carefully.

Likewise, having an idea on what to improve is not enough. You have to have the conviction and commitment to improving yourself no matter what it takes. The process is definitely not going to be easy. For instance, you may need to set stricter rules for you in the office in meeting deadlines.

If before you were looking at the big picture, like the deadline for the entire project, this time you might want to make subcategories and implement a deadline for each and religiously stick with it. In this way, you will not tend to relax at the earlier stages and procrastinate towards the end. You budget and manage your time more effectively. Adjustment to the new behaviour may not be easy but will be very helpful in the long run.

Self-improvement will not come anywhere but from yourself. Yes, you may find a good support system from the people around but this does not mean they will do things for you. You yourself have to believe in what you are aiming for and constantly find solutions instead of giving up should the situation become too complex. Remember that self-improvement is the greatest favour that you can ever give yourself, so do not ever let it fail.